The Collaborative International Dictionary of English v.0.48:

Abusiveness \A*bu"sive*ness\, n.
   The quality of being abusive; rudeness of language, or
   violence to the person.
   [1913 Webster]

         Pick out mirth, like stones out of thy ground,
         Profaneness, filthiness, abusiveness.    --Herbert.
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